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Social Engineering, The Artificial "War of the Sexes"

The Objectification Of Men In Films

Plenty is said regarding the objectification of women in every form of entertainment, from blockbusters to less known video games. Some vigilantes with an excess of estrogen and time to burn strive to identify every single scene or character in an entertainment production which might be linked, even by a feeble strain of hair, to misogyny.

When discussing male objectification, many articles refer to “hyper-masculinity”, which is apparently the equivalent of an alpha male archetype on steroids. Others refer to villains being disproportionately more male than female. The goal of this post is to draw attention to a few motifs which largely go unnoticed.


It’s well known that in a film some characters matter whilst others don’t – as we follow the brave alpha male around, we don’t stop to count how many people he shoots, strangles or throws off buildings. He selects the killing method according to their position; if their back is turned he might break their necks; if they face him he shoots them, as shooting people in the back is cowardly; shooting one after another though, after good eye contact, is supposedly dignified.

At the end of the day he laughs it off in a pub, cool as an ice block, though he has just committed multiple murder, without knowing if each and every one of those men actually posed a danger to him. It is very rare for the main character to kill a woman; the overwhelming majority of throw-away characters are male.

In real life, one would worry about who these people are, how they ended up in a criminal gang and how many grieving families they’re leaving behind.The insidious message seems to be, besides using the characters as props in a story, that it’s OK to view some human beings as disposable, as long as the narrative (and ending) is comfortable enough. Just like soldiers are told to refer to others as “casualties of war” in real life.

In fact, since their only utility and context is being disposed of, they might as well be named after their chosen killing method.


The disposable husband


In a number of films based on intense adventure (B films in particular, but not only), a variation of the following story unfolds. A previously divorced woman who now has a new life and family (though usually her child was fathered by her ex husband) becomes involved in a turbulent situation (a natural catastrophe, a terrorist attack etc), during which she, her child and new husband are in great danger. The ex shows up and saves the day; by the end of the film, the two rekindle their affection and get back together.

I’ve always found it interesting that the new husband so often gets to conveniently fall off a cliff, break his neck, drown etc., sometime during this great adventure.The public is supposed to feel contented that the heroine found the love of her life again and reunited her family, even though just a few days before, she was sharing her bed with someone else, who at the time of her great happiness, lies in a ravine, with vultures pecking at his spine. Remember that wedding ring? A hyena just choked on it.

Somehow, this poor sacrificial chump who gave her stability, accepted someone else’s child as his own and shared her daily life, just ceases to matter – everyone just forgets about him, including his wife. She doesn’t stop to grieve, to recover his body (hell knows; maybe he’s not even dead but lying somewhere wounded waiting to be rescued…) or consider that he’s got a family out there who will miss him. It’s all about her and her wonderful romance. Something about this Hollywood cliche is creepy and chilling.

The same goes for some comedies which involve a woman reuniting with her ex; the current partner (sometimes the fiance) is sent off with a warm gaze and a “see you later”.

Sexual assault turned into a comedy prop

This is something I’ve only witnessed twice in films but it might be more prevalent. While the film industry (and society in general) rightfully demonises male sexual attacks on females, the reverse is seen as amusing; even thrilling. I’m referring to scenes of men being tied up, in situations of extreme mental pressure (their lives being threatened), with women carrying out sexual acts on them without consent. I’m not sure if that would even work anatomically, but it seems to dwell in some people’s imagination. An no, violating someone’s body is not sexy or amusing.

The romantic comedy “hero”

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Or should I say target of ridicule. Subtle ridicule, that’s true. A few years ago I was subjected to a romantic comedy on a bus, three times in a row, after not watching television for ages. Memories of similar films brought the realisation that men are often portrayed as clumsy, awkward and embarrassed by women’s better abilities. In the film in question, a man kept being rescued by a woman in dangerous situations, while freaking out or injuring himself. Whilst not absolutely impossible, this type of scenario reeks of feminist propaganda, which claims it’s normal for women to perform better than men at tasks which involve physical strength (such as shooting a rifle).

Of course these are just a few examples; hopefully I can come up with more.


I take particular exception to the romantic comedy and sit-com “hero”, you’ve drawn our attention to, Maria. Sometime in the eighties, men began to be portrayed as weak and imbecilic, in these entertainment formats.

At about the same time divorce rates skyrocketed. Not suggesting there is a direct causal link — just thinking about how sad it was/is for children, to see men being portrayed as simpletons, compared to women.

The message is, “your daddy’s an idiot.” For a boy, this is just toxic, the pervasive nature of that message, makes it more so. That together with other social factors, like diminishing job prospects, has eroded the hell out of what it means to be a man.

And please, rad fems, spare us the lectures which would have men become even more soft and cuddly and boundary free, while you yourselves become hard as freaking rock. Most women don’t want a human, life size gummy bear to make love to them. Nor do we want to be like you — all edge, all angles, all anger, all the time — 24 freaking 7.

Little boys have a choice. They can hold up romantic comedy and sit-com wimpy idiots as role models, or they can identify with the other end of the spectrum, the action adventure muscled thug, who blows other men away, in remorseless fashion. Given such a negative and narrow choice, most boys are going to choose the muscled thug.

Good post Maria. Thanks. You rock. No…wait. After what I just wrote?? You roll! LOL.
MARCH 20, 2016


It’s sad to witness that part of the backlash is the decision of some men to turn against women altogether, wanting little or nothing to do with them; that stance is becoming increasingly popular. Which in turn makes feminists even more determined; possibly the most toxic and morally irrelevant movement in existence today in the civilised world. They literally make up problems no one but them would take seriously and they can’t even see that.
MAY 13, 2016


Post updated with some funny pics. 🙂
MAY 25, 2016


2 thoughts on “The Objectification Of Men In Films

  1. I grew up watching sitcoms and commercials where dad is the dud and mom is the hero, and I lived in a home with a fantastic father who was often treated like an idiot. I wonder how that has shaped me, sometimes; regardless, it is not a good thing for our boys and girls.

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    1. This US model has seeped into other countries as well and now we are seeing the backlash with actual misogyny starting to spread again. It’s almost as if someone deliberately orchestrated this so-called war of the sexes. I don’t think it’s natural at all.

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